I was at a business meeting and we were joined by employees from our sister company. I was called in as the lead marketer to give a talk on our ideas and where we need to progress in marketing terms. There was this hot blonde sitting in front of me. She was staring all the time at me, then on our lunch break out of no where came over and started to talk to me, all friendly and stuff, this was about for 5 minutes. Me personally, i thought the signs were all there, that there was a clear attraction and i felt the same way too. The problem is, these meetings are very random and they call up different people from our sister company so there is a chance i will never see her again. From the spurr of the moment, in silence, i gave her my contact details secretly while the main co exec was giving his talks. As i had to leave after that, i couldn’t tell her anything so i basically given her me contact details and left without saying anything. Her body language once i gave her my details got her all tense and she didn’t look at me after that. The worst thing is, i found out that i may have to see her again for another meeting. I wish i could of asked her properly but we are in a professional enviroment where you can’t talk because its a full blown, serious meeting.
I think i have 4 options
1) I don’t turn up, make some excuse that im ill.
2) see if she uses my contact details to contact me (which i am having doubts about)–also how long would a girl usually take???
3) go in as if nothing happened that day and just ignore her
4) make some excuse up that i was not meant to give her my email address.
The problem is, i am really shy with girls and it is why i kept it ananonymouss i didn’t want anyone to find out but i think she might of told her friend which i am really worried about.
p.s, sorry marie, i know i typed this question before but the question title didn’t make sense and no one answered,, so i had to delete it and re type this question again. sorry!
Thanx for your response, I think i better give you info about the girl, she seems very shy and the impression i am getting is that she is very reserved and not a loud, foward kind of girl. Thats the dilema i am having. If she was a loud girl then it would make things so much easier!